Tuesday, December 25, 2007

Chanakya's Quotes

Chanakya's Quotes - Worth Learning

"A person should not be too honest. Straight trees are cut first and Honest people are the first target."

"Even if a snake is not poisonous, it should pretend to be venomous."

"The biggest guru-mantra is: Never share your secrets with anybody. If you cannot keep secret with you , do not expect that other will keep it. ! It will destroy you."

"There is some self-interest behind every friendship. There is no Friendship without self-interests. This is a bitter truth."

"Before you start some work, always ask yourself three questions - Why am I doing it, What the results might be and Will I be successful. Only when you think deeply and find satisfactory answers to these questions, go ahead."

"As soon as the fear approaches near, attack and destroy it."
"Once you start a working on something, don't be afraid of failure and don't abandon it. People who work sincerely are the happiest."

"The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all direction."

"A man is great by deeds, not by birth."

"Treat your kid like a darling for the first five years. For the next five years, scold them. By the time they turn sixteen, treat them like a friend. Your grown up children are your best friends."

"Education is the best friend. An educated person is respected everywhere. Education beats the beauty and the youth."
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Monday, December 24, 2007

21 Points To Be A Good Person




1) Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully


.2)Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.


3) Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want


4) When you say, "I love you", mean it.


5) When you say, "I'm sorry", look the person in the eye.


6) Be engaged at least six months before you get married.


7) Believe in love at first sight.


8) Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.


9) Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurtbut it's the only way to live life completely.


10) In disagreements, fight fairly. Please No name calling.


11) Don't judge people by their relatives.


12) Talk slowly but think quickly.


13) When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"


14) Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.


15) Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze


16) When you lose, don't lose the lesson.


17) Remember the three R's: Respect for self;Respect for others;Responsibility for all your actions.


18) Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship


19) When you realize you've made a mistake,take immediate steps to correct it.


20) Smile when picking up the phone.The caller will hear it in your voice.


21) Spend some time alone.


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Thursday, December 20, 2007

AAndal's Thiruppavai

Aandal's Thiruppavai

Aandal is a tenth century tamil poet and saint. She wrote and recited Thirupavai 30 songs in favour of Thirumal.Devotees recite these songs during Margazhi month , Aandaal is known for her unwavering devotion to Lord Vishnu. The Srivilliputhur Temple is didicated to her(birth place of Andal). Adopted by her father, the famous saint Periyalvar who found her as a baby, Aandaal avoided earthly marriage, the normal and expected path for women of her culture, to "marry" Lord Vishnu, both spiritually and physically. In many places in India, particularly in Tamil Nadu,http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andal

Thiruppavai is songs .a collection of 30 beautiful songs written by Andal in praise of Thirumal(Krishna) Each one song is for each day of the month. All these songs are sweet and very simple.
மார்கழித் திங்கள் மதிநிறைந்த நன்னாளால்!
நீராடப் போதுவீர் போதுமினோ நேரிழையீர்!
சீர்மல்கும் ஆய்ப்பாடிச் செல்வச் சிறுமீர்காள்!
கூர்வேல் கொடுந்தொழிலன் நந்தகோபன் குமரன் ஏரார்ந்த கண்ணி யசோதை இளம்சிங்கம் கார்மேனிச் செங்கண் கதிர் மதியம் போல்முகத்தான் நாராயணனே நமக்கே பறை தருவான்பாரோர் புகழப் படிந்தேலோர் எம்பாவாய்.1
http://www.ibiblio.org/ramanuja/thiruppavai/( Thiruppavai Pasura Artham Upanyasams by Sri. U. Ve. Velukkudi Krishnan Swami)

Karthikai Deepam

Appam


karthikai Pori



Karthikai deepam






This festival is celebrated in the month karthikai pournami day.We put rangoli and light earthern lamps and big vilakkus. Two days before we clean them.Keep the big vilakku at the entrance of our home and keep the other lamps around the big one. We prepare aval pori nel pori undais and sweet appams and exchange with others. Brother goes to sisiter;s house and give her vattila pakku pazham, money and pori appams.
It is delighted to see the light everywhere.

Wednesday, December 12, 2007

Good ones



People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges.
Sometimes the littlest things in life can make your whole world.change.
The choice you make today will usually affect tomorrow
Happiness is a choice that requires effort at times
The most beautiful things in the world must be seen from the heart.
Harsh words break no bones but they do break hearts
Love is the only thing that can be divided without being diminished
Do what you can for whom you can, with what you have and where you are
May you hear God's voice in your heart know His touch in your life
and feel His love each day.,
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